Thursday, December 17, 2009

never doubt.....

(photo courtesy tauntingpanda)

"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has." ~ Margaret Mead

Friday, December 11, 2009

The Power To Transform





by Sheila Ivy Traister

Have you looked in the mirror lately only to see worry and uncertainty staring back at you? That's been the face most Americans have seen as we try to make sense of the mess we find ourselves in as a country and a nation among nations, all of whom are struggling to make sense of our current state of affairs.

When the world is crashing in around you how do you as an artist find meaning in what you do... in who you are... in what matters?

As an actor, I reflect on the fact that as a character in a story whether it is a film, a television show, a play or any one of dozens of performance vehicles; I have the power to transform the moment to uplift and enliven the human spirit.

Through the exchange of ideas, dreams and fantasies we have the power to create understanding where there has only been detachment... to usher in laughter where there have only been tears... to allow for healing where there has only been anger, pain and depression.

Throughout history, artists of all walks by way of music, poetry, plays, films, books, dance, the fine arts and more have challenged us to examine who we are and how it is we walk this life. Like the court jester who has an audience with the King, the artist has the ability through the realm of entertainment to cause us to question our behavior and the world we are creating. They can make us forget or remember... to want to try harder... to examine why... to not settle for and to challenge existing paradigms and established modalities in order to usher in much needed change; be it our own or the world around us.

Often it is simply the gift of making us smile for an hour or two so that we can forget the problems of the day in order to face tomorrow with greater agility for the challenges it will surely bring.

There is much beauty to celebrate in a world that appears to be crumbling around us. If we can find that in the gifts given us as performers perhaps we can help others through the magic of our collaborations to do the same.

Let's look for the places within that unite us in our common cause to celebrate life and one another... let's take up the challenge to be our best selves in the most difficult of times; even when our own work opportunities have dwindled under the weight of economic and political strife.

I do believe as artists we have an innate ability akin to alchemists to transform the mundane into magic. How will you as an artist, this very day, use your gifts to transform worry and uncertainty into a celebration of possibility and new dreams... creating a new landscape for the year ahead.

Talent is a responsibility not to be taken lightly... honor it and embrace the gift you are to this world and share it unselfishly; then rejoice as you reap the rewards that will certainly come your way. ~Sheila

Thursday, August 27, 2009

old world vs new world part 10

(photo courtesy russellreno)

The business -- and life -- mantra for the new world must become: How can I help you to succeed?

Monday, August 24, 2009

old world vs new world part 9

(photo courtesy henkster)

adult spirituality isn't about the books or seminars or films or businesses or healing centers we create, it's about how we treat each other in the process of creating these things.

Thursday, August 20, 2009

listening

(photo courtesy tom@hk)

We are moving out of a time when we focused on trying to solve ourselves and each other, and into a time when we honor each person's journey.

A time when the most healing energy we can offer others -- and ourselves -- is simply to be present for them, to listen to them without judgment, to hear their story without trying to fix them. The obsession with trying to fix things, us, the planet, has gotten us into more trouble than contributed to genuine healing.

Because when we try to fix something we start from a place that we are broken. And maybe we aren't (there are always exceptions, such as people with biological challenges, or planetary problems that we have created).

Maybe we're divine beings who chose to lose themselves in the dense world of matter in order to better understand the complexity and power and beauty of creation from within.

Maybe if we'd honored one another from the beginning without judgment, we would naturally have returned to our divine state in a more graceful and timely way.

Maybe if we'd been allowed to 'flow' without having our 'waters' diverted or damned-up by trying to fix everything, we'd have gently returned to the 'ocean' eons ago.

Offer help and encouragement, of course; share -- absolutely.

But also simply be present and listen and offer an understanding smile and a comforting hand.

That might be all the miracle someone -- and ourselves -- really needs.

Thursday, August 13, 2009

Spiritual Hollywood

(photo courtesy alan light)

In the case of Hollywood, adult spirituality isn't really about making more films about spiritual folks, thought there's nothing wrong with this and it may be helpful to many on their individual paths. It's not just about maintaining the status quo while increasing personal wealth (again, nothing wrong with this) and getting to hangout with spiritual celebrities at the spa.

Billions of praying Catholics, Hindus, Muslims, Buddhists and New Agers haven't fundamentally changed the world, though it makes us feel better about ourselves. Christ dying on the cross and Siddartha leaving his wife and family haven't fundamentally changed the world.

"E.T" and "Saving Private Ryan" and "Ben Hur" and "Apocalypse Now" haven't fundamentally changed the world.

What changes the world is how I deal with you and how you deal with me. Changing the world is about changing individual consciousness -- and then putting it to work in the real world.

It's about honor and integrity and patience and compassion and inclusion and forgiveness and love.

It's about spreading the love and the wealth. It's about taking the time to go the extra mile than is called for. It's about treating everyone as equally important and worthy of being listened to and supported. It's about how can I make you successful?

That's how you change the world.

You change the world -- not by the products the world produces -- but by changing the way the world does business in the first place.

Not through a massive weekend box office or back-slapping at an award's show. You change the world by changing ourselves then changing others, one person at a time. One heart at a time.

And if a terrific movie comes out of that exchange, then how cool is that?

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Mastery

(photo courtesy fatal cleopatra)
True mastery is not tested and achieved on the mountaintop, but in the desert, not in the ashram, but in the slum, not in the healing conference, but in the AIDS ward, not at the peace gathering, but on the battlefield. Not in the calm, but in the storm.

Thursday, August 6, 2009

August 8th Visions

(photo courtesy _bastian)

I envision:

A colorful, joyful carnival at the North & South Korean border.

An international flower market and festival at Tienanmen square.

Jerusalem and Gaza and the West Bank as a global center for religious/spiritual studies filled with libraries and lecture halls and conference centers.

Iraq as a thriving metropolis.

Iran as a pluralistic society filled with global universities.

The refugee camps in Africa as wildlife parks and environmental housing projects.

The battle zones in Africa as peaceful, economically developed nations.

The slums of South and Central America as beautiful, clean and simple housing communities with parks and civic centers.

Mountainous waste dumps as parks and ecological study centers.

The oceans and lakes and streams as sparkling, clean waterways.

The sky brilliant blue, free of smog.

Leaders in Washington and all nations taking a moment of silent prayer/meditation for the highest good of all before doing business.

Wall Street and Hollywood replacing greed with the pursuit of abundance for all.

Myself as being non-judgmental, open, flexible, forgiving, loving and compassionate.

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

old world vs. new world part 8

(photo courtesy spiralz)
Indian 'Ten Commandments':

1. Treat the Earth and all that dwell thereon with respect. 2. Remain close to the Oneness. 3. Show great respect for your fellow beings. 4. Work together for the benefit of all humanity. 5. Give assistance and kindness wherever needed. 6. Do what you know to be right. 7. Look after the well-being of mind and body. 8. Dedicate a share of your efforts to the greater good. 9. Be truthful and honest at all times. 10. Take full responsibility for your actions.

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

old world vs. new world part 7

(photo courtesy woodley wonder works)

The world and its workings won't change until there is a change in our consciousness. We can create all the seminars and workshops and global initiatives and green industries and positive-change production companies, and we will have simply transferred the same fear-based, power-based, ego-based energies from one paradigm to another. But nothing fundamentally will have changed.

What do I mean by a change of consciousness?

Some examples:

No more locks, security codes or passwords. We are in the era of No More Secrets; the Age of Michael; the Violet Age. We either trust that there are no accidents in the universe or we don't. Period. And we also trust that what we put out we receive back. Or we don't. Period. If you steal from me than you need whatever was stolen more than I do. I trust in the universe. You do not. Yet. Besides, none of us "owns" anything. It's all on loan to us as ways to express love.

When an industry or production assistant or secretary receives a phone call on the same day from President Obama or Steven Spielberg and another call from an unknown person. Each must be treated as EQUALLY IMPORTANT. Period. After the call, and further down the line other information may come to pass that determines how much energy you direct toward that unknown person, but THE UNIVERSE REQUIRES US TO KNOW THAT EACH AND EVERY PERSON ON THE PLANT ARE EQUALLY IMPORTANT. Period.

No more contracts. Our word becomes our bond. We may have basic written agreements but they are only to place in writing information we may forget or unconsciously neglect. But in the New World we either trust in the universe or we don't. Period.

No more lawsuits. I will not sue you because you will not consciously cause me harm. You will not cheat or steal from me because to do so harms yourself more than it does me. If you unconsciously cause me harm, you will accept responsibility and apologize and I will forgive you and we will move forward together because you and I ARE ONE.

My very first thought as an employer or producer or government leader must be: How can I help you to succeed? Because when you succeed, I succeed. I either believe in the Law of Attraction, or I don't. Period.

These are just a few of the changes in consciousness that must come about for us to survive the coming changes and create that New World we've never truly imagined before.

But must now.

Saturday, July 11, 2009

cynicism

(photo courtesy darkpatatar)

cynicism is fear resigned into unhappiness manifesting as anger cloaked in intellectualism.

Thursday, July 9, 2009

a new prayer

(photo courtesy babasteve)

Prayer, especially in the western tradition, has become somewhat of a solemn affair, usually used to invoke something from Someone for self or someone else. Nothing wrong with this. Prayer, meditation is a very good thing. Keeps one grounded, connected and a bit humbled -- not by a thundering God -- but by a stunningly powerful universe, of which we are an intimate part.

But perhaps now is the time to expand the concept of prayer to include a more...active approach. The Zen Buddhists have it right: everything can be a prayer.

Everything should be a prayer.

Everything is a prayer.

Make mowing the lawn a prayer, and not a downturned-head affair of somewhat embarrassed reflection, but a song of movement and breath and grass and sunlight and water; the weight and the rumble of an engine, the smell of oil and gas.

Make sex, whether self-pleasured or shared, a prayer. And not one of cultural or personal or religious shame and hesitation, but one of giddy and giggling and laughter-infused passion; of gratitude for the feeling of pleasure, of physical joy radiated out into the universe. A prayer of orgasm, free, open and astonishing.

Make doing the dishes and washing clothes and cleaning the house an act of prayer, an act of consciousness. For we are doing something that not even the archangels can do.

Make laughter a prayer. And sorrow. And pain. And even fear because as we face fear and acknowledge it and make it a sacred event, it delivers us to our freedom, to our light. To our Self.

Make work and typing and Internet cruising a prayer of adventure and knowledge and delight in the power of communication.

Make bowel movements and headaches and hangovers a prayer by simply being present for them, because even these we will miss profoundly when we are gone.

Make of our lives a prayer by living them honestly and openly and bravely.

Make our breath a prayer, for there is ecstasy there, and life, and the Divine.

Make death and passing a prayer of life simply lived, for this is not a journey for the faint-of-heart, regardless of our successes or failures, crimes or punishments. As Shakespeare wrote, "There is a special providence in even the fall of a sparrow."

My prayer for you: that the winds of time and life blow gently at your back.

Thursday, July 2, 2009

old world vs. new world part 6

(photo courtesy malingering)

In the new world there come the understanding that everyone one the planet is equally important, that in the Universe's eyes, the winner of the Nobel Prize and the grade school janitor are absolutely equally important; that each is playing their perfect part in a universal mosaic. As for those we now know as criminals -- when we begin to recognize the importance of every single human being -- anti-social behavior will cease to exist because every soul will be honored, supported and encouraged from birth.

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

if not now, when?

(photo courtesy david silverline)

As we honor our individual struggles, it's also time to move out of our comfort zones and limited views and reach out to the world, which desperately needs every heart and hand available. we are the ones we've been waiting for.

Friday, June 26, 2009

who am i?

(photo courtesy undy)

Who I AM is defined by how different I AM from everyone else.

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

spiritual adulthood

(photo courtesy alice popkorn)


The journey from adulthood to spiritual adulthood is the acceptance of the love of self, the acceptance of self, unconditionally.

Spiritual adulthood says that our painful, difficult journeys where in themselves acts of grace.

To become spiritual adults we must make peace with our past and those who betrayed us. And those we have betrayed. Including ourselves.

We must try to see our lives -- not as a series of mistakes, abuses and successes, but as an extraordinary painting made up of extraordinary colors that tell an extraordinary story.

We must accept ourselves as we are.

And we must be willing to love our selves so much that we are willing to let go of all outside forces that judge us and limit us: family, friends, society, our own egos.

We must stop being victims of the outside world.

We must -- ultimately and finally -- come to God/Goddess alone and naked.

There will come a time when we will be able to tell our story to others who have never experienced human life. They will look at us with awe and admiration and they will ask: what is pain?
and we will know.
what is joy?
and we will know.
what is fear?
we will know.
what is grace?
we will know.

We are goddesses and gods who chose to forget in order to explore our own creation from the inside.

We are master artists, each one of us, and in us the Divine delights.

Friday, June 19, 2009

June 19th, 2009

to all this day struggling with more than mortgages and bad press. (and to all those struggling this day with bad press and mortgages as well).


My brother and sisters are one
I am one with them.
I seek to love and not hate.
I seek to serve and not exact due service.
I seek to heal and not hurt.
Let pain bring due reward of light and love.
Let the soul control the outer form,
the life and all events,
and bring to light the love that underlies the happenings of the time.
Let vision come and insight.
Let the future stand revealed.
Let inner union demonstrate and outer cleavages be gone.
Let love prevail.
Let all humanity love.
And so it is.


-- Dwal Kul

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Old World vs New World Part 5

(a third, earlier blog perhaps still relevant...)

The Rugged Individual. The Sole Survivor. The Independent.

Actually, there's no such person. Never has been. Never will be. Not possible.

Here I am -- by myself -- writing this post on a computer. On a blog site created by people I'll never meet. Working on said computer built by machines built by thousands of others, invented by hundreds.

Inventors taught by teachers. Teachers taught by other teachers, who studied books written by writers, on paper created by printers, on machines powered by electricity, drawn from power plants, powered by rivers.

I am here in this moment ONLY through the countless contributions of others. The glasses and clothes I wear, the food I eat, the waste I create that is disposed of by the nameless and the faceless.

I have achieved NOTHING by myself. I was helped by cab drivers and merchants and newspaper editors and friends and family and pets and on and on and on and on and on.

If we want to be by ourself, then be by ourself. But don't kid ourself that we're an island unto ourself.

We are here -- each and every one of us -- through the grace and grit of everyone else on the planet.

Look at a grove of Aspen trees sometime. Hundreds of trees standing side-by-side, apart, individual. But look below the soil and you'll find a single root system uniting them all.

So it is with each of us.

Old World vs New World Part 4

(photo courtesy hamed saber)
(a second, earlier blog perhaps worth looking at again...)

In the face of seemingly relentless parades of human and environmental nightmares, it is easy for one person to feel overwhelmed and powerless: What can just one person do in the face of massive global disruptions?

Actually, one person is just about as powerful as you can get; one person with focused intent.

There is the Hebrew saying, To save one person is to save the world. But is that really possible? Or just wishful thinking?

Again, actually, it's true.

We've evolved to think of ourselves as separate from one another and the environment, when the exact opposite is true.

In quantum physics the theory of non-locality suggests that there is no such thing as distance; that at the sub-atomic level and beyond there is, in effect, only one of 'us.'

And if there is only "one of us," and as everything in the universe vibrates, and that higher vibrations transform lower vibrations, then all each one of us has to do is to practice, as the Buddhists say, "right living." That practice raises our vibration, which in turn, is instantly fed into the system of all humanity and the planet, and the universe itself.

Certainly in a material, 3-dimensional world, it helps to get involved in our communities and the world at large, but by also working on ourselves and wishing the best for others, an energy wave resonates outwards in all directions and is received by everyone and everything, instantly.

Also, the interior work we do on ourselves we also do for all others as well, those who don't have the time or inclination or the will. When food goes into the mouth it doesn't just serve the mouth but the entire body. What we do for ourselves, we do for others, whether we know it or not.

Of course, this also means that any negative energy we put out or direct to ourselves, whether in the forms of self-criticism, or guilt, or anger, or shame, also resonates throughout the planet and to each living being on it.

That is the level of our ability.

That is the level of our responsibility.

Monday, June 8, 2009

Old World vs New World Part 3

(This is a blog entry from November '08, but which I felt could be repeated. And my apologies to the photographer, as I have been unable to find an attribution.)

In these challenging times of international monetary and cultural upheaval, it is easy to point fingers and seek (myself included) someone to blame for our troubles.

It is especially easy to blame those who are "truly responsible" for the financial mess, those who made billions by looting companies and then went off on multi-million dollar vacations and extravagant business conferences, while people lost their homes and lifetime savings and retirements and health care.

And what about all those moderate and low-income families who took advantage of the highly risky mortgages, assuming financial responsibilities they (perhaps) knew they couldn't afford. Aren't they guilty as well? Do they deserve to be bailed-out (forgiven)?

Taking for granted that quite possibly all of us at one time or another sought 'something for nothing,' isn't it enough that they are now forced to deal with the loss of their homes and the dislocation of their families? Do we really need to add a punishment as well? Are we that unsympathetic?

It is understandable and very human to seek revenge and punishment.

But it is an old energy for an old world that is dying away.

Judgment and punishment were -- and still are -- the primary energies responsible for the conditions on this planet and throughout history. Because once we've sought and delivered judgment and punishment onto another, we can't stop there. It becomes a virus that must be fed, and then laws and cultures and religions and governments are built on judgment and punishment. These judgments and punishments can be disguised as taxation and justice and god, but at their core they are about power over another. And of course, these same energies then become a part of our individual psychological and moral makeup. And we consciously or unconsciously manifest self-judgment and self-punishment. Which makes it even easier to then judge and punish others, because we recognize it in ourselves, but can't attack ourselves, so we must attack others.

And perhaps this has all been appropriate for our growth as a spiritual species.

But it is not appropriate anymore. Now now. Not in the new world being birthed before our eyes.

The election of Barack Obama is a sign of these new times. His inclusion of past 'enemies' in his administration is a sign of these new times. His insistence on not pointing fingers or blaming others for their past actions is a sign of these coming times.

It is, quite frankly, a sign of Christhood, and Krishna Consciousness and the Buddha Heart and the Great Spirit.

And it is an energy that has always been open to us, but which is now flooding the planet. And it is an energy that has nothing whatsoever to do with religion, which is steeped in judgment and punishment.

As Yeshua is reported to have said from the cross: "Forgive them, for they know not what they do." What he meant is that those who judged him and crucified him were not evil, but had forgotten the truth of who they are and always were: the Divine made manifest. Love made manifest.

It is exceedingly easy -- and feels good -- to blame another, judge and then punish them. In the old world of three-dimensional linear separation, that made perfect sense. It was always us against them.

But in the new, multi-dimensional world of interconnection, who are "us" and who are "them?"

A corporate executive decides -- for purely personal gain -- to rob his own company (though he most certainly has very reasonable reasons for doing it at the time, even if they only make sense to him). People's lives are destroyed. He gets off scott-free. A clear case of a 'bad guy' winning, and one who needs to be punished.

But did he really act alone? Who are his accomplices? An educational system that promoted the one over the many? Laws passed by congressmen and women that allowed his actions? Board members who looked the other way in their own self-interest? Newspapers that didn't report on his actions? People who didn't read the newspapers that did report on it? People who didn't care? People who re-elected the same congress-people? People who cheated others in their own lives and rationalized that this is just the way people are and the way the system works? A culture that rewarded wealth and celebrity at all costs? And on and on.

No one has ever acted alone on this planet. No one ever will. We are all accomplices, whether we like to believe it or not.

And that includes the murderer and the rapist and the genocidal general. Sorry, but that's always been the truth and continues to be the truth.

The most 'evil' people on this planet are a product of the families and the worlds they grew up in. There are, perhaps, those rare and few sociopaths born of genetic and/or birth defects who go on to commit horrendous crimes. But then one could argue that they are not in their 'right mind' and therefore not legally responsible. -- And certainly until the new world is fully birthed we still have to protect ourselves and our families and nations from those who would cause us harm. But in the meantime we can all start practicing a little less judgment and punishment.

"We can't reward those who cause us harm."

The Christ, the Buddha, Krishna would say, "Don't reward them, but also don't judge them and don't punish them. They are not evil. They have only forgotten. As have all of you, at one time or another, whether you choose to believe it or not. And I promise you, you would not like to have your seemingly perfect life judged by another. You would all come up quite short. Luckily, the Divine does not judge and does not punish. It knows you have forgotten. It knows you will eventually remember."

What would happen if we replaced all the prisons with healing centers -- secure ones (this will, after all, take a bit of getting used to for everyone involved).

"Criminals don't deserve to be healed!"

In the new world there are no criminals, only the wounded, who then go out to wound others.

And if we truly want to break the cycle of violence on this planet once and for all, we don't keep perpetuating it through judgment and punishment, which are also forms of violence. We break the cycle with compassion. We break it by placing ourself in the other person's shoes and seeing the world through their eyes. We come to terms with the truth, no matter how difficult, that that person is our brother and our sister. And what we do to them, we do to ourselves. That they have forgotten just as we have forgotten at one time or another. And whether through emotional violence or physical violence, we have all 'killed' someone at some point in our lives. And if not in this life, then most certainly in a past life.

The person who commits the crime, consciously or unconsciously, expects to be judged and punished. That is how they justify their actions to themselves: It's the way the world is. Survival of the fittest.

But what if that person is brought before a jury of their peers and are told: "We do not judge you. We do not condemn you. We shall not punish you. But we will work together to heal the wound that caused this act in the first place, and we will work together to heal the wounds you have in turn inflicted on others." You will have taken away their defense. You will have taken away their excuse. And eventually, you will break open their heart, and in their long-overdo healing, we are all healed just a little bit more.

And truly, we are not healing them, we are only reminding them of who they truly are, and they heal themselves.

And by this example, the entire culture and the entire world is forced to look at itself deeply and gradually to let go of its judgments and resentments and excuses. And the heart of the planet is cracked-open. And violence will go the way of cannibalism and human sacrifice and witch burning.

And we will awake to heaven on earth.

Of our own making.

Born of our remembrance.

Old World vs New World Part 2

(photo courtesy jynmeyer)


In this coming New World, whenever we arrive at a potential personal or business conflict, or when we are confronted by an 'old way of doing business', I offer this surprisingly simply yet extraordinarily powerful request from "A Course In Miracles" to receive guidance on how to live and work gracefully, for the highest good of all, in the new paradigm:


"(My Source, my Highest Self) Help me to see this situation with a new set of eyes. Not with the eyes of fear, but with Your Eyes, with equal love for myself and all others."


...and watch the miracles happen.

the ownership of suffering

(photo courtesy preciouskhyatt)


Suffering is not something to be 'owned' by a person, a cultural/ethnic group, or a society. It is something to be acknowledged, honored -- and then healed. And then released to the personal -- and global -- history books to be learned from.

And moved beyond.

Sunday, June 7, 2009

OLD WORLD vs NEW WORLD

(photo courtesy lifehouse design)



Even if it seems an impossible fantasy, we must begin DAILY, moment-to-moment, to visualize what the new world will look like and how we will live within it.

The Mind/Thought -- Heart/Intuition. The mind is fear-based/past-centered and will not serve me in the new world. It can only repeat non-functioning patterns. 'I will go insane.' The heart/intuition exits in the present moment and sees all solutions for the highest good of all. 'It cannot lead me astray. I will dwell in love.
'

Fear -- Faith, which is a literal energy and not just a philosophic idea, 'will be me my daily well to draw upon. I must meditate/pray every day, not just because it is emotionally and spiritually healthy, but because it will be the only way to access the new information coming into the new world and into my life.'

Advertising -- Sharing your vision with everyone, everywhere, all the time -- for the highest good of all. Speak your truth.

Competition -- Collaboration; co-creation: we can't do it by ourselves. We've never been able to do it all by ourselves: No person is an island.

Credit -- Trust; everyone honors their commitments. When they are not able to honor those commitments then the agreements are re-negotiated; everything changes, nothing stays the same: "How can I help you to help me?"

Capitalism -- Social/economic contracts for the highest good of all, understanding the Law of Attraction. (see above)

Market Systems -- Barter systems added to the mix; shared wealth.

Taxes -- Everyone -- including ALL corporations -- tithe 10% of every commercial monetary exchange, 5% to the government, 5% to personal causes.

Lawsuits/Contracts -- 'I will not sue you because you will not cheat me.' Honoring you is honoring me. Honoring me is honoring you.

Theft -- 'I trust that there are no accidents. I trust in Universal Balancing. If a material possession is stolen from me and I can't get it back from the person, I will let them have it because they need it more than I do. I trust in Universal Abundance.'

Violence -- Non-violence, compassion, forgiveness. 'To harm you is to harm me.'

Guilt/Shame -- Self-love/Self worth/Personal responsibility. 'To harm me is to harm all.'

Judgment/Criticism -- Non-judgment, non-criticism, understanding; we are all one. No one is perfect and they're not supposed to be. Though each path is unique and perfect in its own way.

Dis-ease -- Health, vitality.

Thursday, May 28, 2009

listening

(photo courtesy petteri sulonon)

"Listening is a magnetic and strange thing, a creative force. You can see that when you think how the friends that really listen to us are the ones we move toward, and we want to sit in their radius as though it did us good, like ultraviolet rays." -- Brenda Ueland

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

a little humility

(photo courtesy little.jafa)


not so humbled by gurus and saints and spiritual celebrities as by the AIDS worker, the single mom waitress, the man mentoring a child. not humbled by words, and not personalities, but by actions; the mark we leave on the world

Sunday, May 17, 2009

healing the past

(photo courtesy sister72)


As the past and future exist at the same time and are directly effected by consciousness, and as we are all intimately connected by the energetic web of life, then the past can be changed by actions today.

Let me offer a metaphoric example: According to the Bible, Perhaps I am whipped twenty times in Pilot’s palace 2,000-some years ago.

Perhaps you, today, are able to go deeply into your heart and forgive yourself, or someone who has wronged you greatly. That creates -- literally -- a wave of Love that resonates forward -- and backward -- through time, effecting everything it touches.

It even reaches me, in Pilot’s temple, and everyone there is effected -- changed -- by your act of Love and I am whipped nineteen times.

With the added Love sent from you, in the future, back to me, I am that much stronger and can send more Love forward in time to you. That Love in turn, reaches you and helps you to be yet more loving and forgiving and that, in turn, sends more Love back to me, where I am whipped eighteen times.

And on and on it goes, back and forth, beyond space and time, until one day you wake up, as if from a vivid dream, and are made aware of the story of an old prophet and teacher named Yeshua, who died as an old man in his sleep surrounded by wife and family. And this will be the truth of it. For my mission will have succeeded, through you, in the future, and my death on the cross will not have been necessary. In the past.

Exciting possibilities. Yes?

-- Excerpt from The Daughter Seminar.

Saturday, May 16, 2009

a time to play

(photo courtesy mstecker)

We have to remember that we are literally at the end of the world as we know it.

Whatever we may have been working at earlier isn't important anymore. The times have changed. We are birthing a new world as the old one collapses. Too much is happening too quickly for us to do anything about it. The Universe and our higher selves have truly taken over. We just have to get out of the way and flow with the river.

"There's no way I can compete." That's true for all of us now: there's no way we can compete or control anymore. Only surrender. Only show-up. Only be honest with our emotional life. Only let go of guilt and shame and fear and judgment.

Only try to open to joy and play. We do more now to assist the Universe if we simply re-learn how to play, in all things.

Play is how a child -- like a new world -- is born.

Sunday, April 26, 2009

simple things

(photo courtesy annia316af:)

I recently asked some friends and strangers what some of their favorite things were in life. Here are a few (no mention of jobs or paychecks or career success or power...):

The feeling of being in a creative flow, and that when a long project is completed. A good heart-felt hug. A conversation when we truly hear each other. The whisper of wind in the trees on a warm day. A vista after a long hike. Bird song, frogs croaking, crickets chirping, bees droning. Water lapping on a shore. Good dark chocolate. The smile of someone I love. (And there are many.) The fragrance of certain flowers, the rose and jasmine. A multi-hued flower garden; strong true colors. 3rd movement, Beethoven's Ninth. the smell of just-cut grass. the droning sound of a bi-plane engine on a blue-sky-summer afternoon. smell of fresh baked bread in the morning. a cat's purring. the fresh smell of linens and clothing hung out on a cloth's line in the sunshine. the smell of gingerbread cookies in the air when winter comes around. Dyeing easter eggs and eating the obligatory peep. leaving a phone message on my best friends phone that only she and I can get. the pug snore that drowns out the tv at night. I love: my family. Living in Malibu, seeing the Ocean as I drive down the PCH. My friends, new and old, and my doggie ~ my most forgiving, loyal companion. Yerba Mate Tea with the accompanying alertness. my husband's arms around me when i cry. watching a tiny rose bud unfurl into a majestic rose. setting the table for a meal to share with someone i love. the smell of freshly shampooed hair. the music of a dreamy saxophone. the sound of the water falling in my table fountain; giggling over the rose quartz and renewing the dry shells. the sight of sunlight thru stained glass. getting a card from a long lost friend. remembering that I was once told, "the door is always open". the total acceptance of a child as he/she returns my smile. the smell of rain on concrete (city girl). anything by Kandinsky. a call from an old friend ( or an email). finding no trans fats in fritos. dressing up. Sunsets. Moonlight. The seasons changing. The unexpected call from a friend. ink-stained fingers from writing. The smell of fresh brewed espresso. Dolphins playing in the water off of Venice beach. An excited puppy jumping all over me. The oh-so-good ache of my muscles after an awesome practice. Holding a new born baby just minutes after they've arrived. My son's beautiful smile and giggle. A balmy California night with the moon sailing in the sky. Lip-biting, toe-curling, knee-quaking, soul-deepening sex. Summer rain. The smell of the one I love. Kissing my children's soft cheeks when they sleep. The taste of my morning tea. Riding my bike to work listening to music. Swimming laps and feeling like I am breathing underwater and sleeping while I do it. Feeling the arms of my kids wrapped around my leg or neck giving me a hug. That indigo blue color of the sky after the sun has set. The feel of my little cat's sandpapery tongue on my hand. Running on the firm sand at low tide and watching the waves crash. The sound of almost any Strauss waltz. A fresh butter croissant in the morning. kissy attacks on babies -- both human and animals. big belly laughter -- and the way a huge smile makes all faces purdy. random acts of senseless dorkiness. inebriated discussions around the campfire. being blow out of my sox by excellent art, performance, music, roller skate dancing... and all things creative. The smell of the fennel on Runyon Canyon. The pink in the little black cheeks of a girl I sponsor in Uganda, named Dianah. The impossibility of not smiling when you hear a three year old's laughter. The heat of a soft pretzel from Philly. Coconut macaroons made by a Portuguese baker named Elliot. Like eating gold and batter and coconut confetti at once. Anyone's smile. A good hearty laugh. A good healthy cry. Gmail because it holds everything and I can actually check it at work.

thanks to everyone for sharing.

Thursday, April 23, 2009

a man
























A man opens doors -- always; a gentleman also stands when a woman arrives or leaves a table and when another man is being introduced. This not quaint, patronizing, pre-feminist behavior; it's called courtesy that a man extends to a woman in appreciation for all she brings to the world. And expresses the respect of meeting another man.

A man knows how -- and when -- to curse, which is never used in the heat of an argument or in shouting at a missed hoop shot (a man never loses control), but to put a perfect punctuation on a colorful point.

A man never strikes a woman, child or animal -- ever.

A man takes care of his body.

A man has at one point in his life read and memorized a poem -- not a limerick. Limericks are for boys.

A man is a protector of those with less or in a weakened state or being taken advantage of. But he does not prevent a person from exercising their own personal expression of power and defense. He knows all individuals must learn to stand on their own two feet.

A man accepts no labels or judgments or limitations for himself or others. A man's purpose is to find his own self-expression and then help others to find theirs.

A man believes in something greater than himself if for no other reason that it keeps him humble and grateful.

A man does not give his power over to a religion or cult or spiritual practice. He may learn from these practices and beliefs, but only in so far as they help him to empower himself and in turn others. A man is respectful of others spiritual choices, as long as no one's free will is being impinged upon. He trusts each individual to find their own path. He does not proselytize though he does share. A man is an expression of his own godhood.

A man doesn't apologize for his sexuality or his enjoyment of erotica -- as long as no one's informed, responsible, adult free will has been abused. A man enjoys his sexuality and shares it with his partner for the mutual enjoyment of both, not as an excuse to avoid intimacy. A man celebrates that, in sex, the woman always comes first.

A man doesn't belong to a political party, but learns form all positions and makes his own informed decisions.

A man dresses consciously, whether for the beach, hanging out on the couch or for a formal dinner.

A modern man doesn't hunt to kill, unless he plans to feed himself and his family, but to test his hunting skills and make contact with his primal masculine energies. He honors the life -- and death -- of the animal as his ancient ancestors did. A man never allows an animal to suffer. When the same intents can be experienced with a hunting photograph, then bullets are put aside.

A man is a protector of the environment.

A man obeys just laws and fights unjust laws and is thoughtful in his distinction of the two.

A man is harmless, but will defend himself, his family and his country if need be.

A man is respectful of differing points of view.

A man doesn't take personal credit, but if credit is offered, he accepts it gratefully and humbly.

A man listens.

A man does not complain and certainly never whines. Though he does share his feelings.

A man performs his work with respect and integrity, or he finds new work that fosters these energies. A man knows that all work is honorable, whether a banker or a trash hauler. And he knows that the greatest work is that which helps others.

A man is gentle, kind, thoughtful.

A man is his own man.

A man is not prejudiced or racist or sexist; he accepts the complexity and diversity of life.

A man knows how to dance.

A man knows the difference between an ale, a beer, a scotch and a bourbon.

A man does not drink anything with an umbrella in it.

A man does not text message (my bad).

A man does not say, "My bad."

A man speaks to another in person or on the phone rather than hiding behind email and message services.

A man does not spend added time with the computer or tv when he can be taking a walk or having a talk with his partner or child. A man doesn't play video games unless it is with his child. A man does not read comic books unless it is to his children.

A man clears the path ahead and tests the water first.

A man knows how to build a fire, find true north, and read a geographic map.

A man, on occasion -- literally -- howls at the full moon.

A man faces his fears and help others face theirs.

A man does not dictate but encourages and supports.

A man doesn't raise his voice: he doesn't need to.

A man doesn't raise his fist; he doesn't need to. Violence is always his last choice. But when forced to act, he does so without hesitation.

A man is not weak, but also knows there is strength and healing power in vulnerability.

A man is both sturdy oak and bending willow.

A man builds things to last.

A man places his name on his creations.

A man accepts responsibility for his actions, does not lie, or pass the blame, and always apologizes when an apology is required.

A man does not seek revenge but closure.

A man is compassionate and empathetic.

A man holds his partner's hand.

A man champions the best in himself and others.

A man enjoys competition and is never a sore loser. And he'll stay to encourage the last one across the finish line.

A man never cheats.

A man is not afraid to cry to share his powerful emotional life.

A man shares without hesitation, even to his last dollar.

Too much? Unrealistic? Impossible?
Suck it up.
Be a man.

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

happy earth day/week/month/year/eternity

(photo courtesy thiru murugan)



Ohhhh, to be alive in time and space!

If only those now living could recall what such a prospect once meant to them before their life began. And what it still means to multitudes in the unseen now awaiting their own initiations who, try as they may, can't even imagine the simple ecstasy of breathing.

To them, you already "have it all,"
The Universe

Sunday, April 19, 2009

times a changin'

(photo courtesy creactions)

Here are some statistics for the Year 1909 :


The average life expectancy was 47 years.

Only 14 percent of the homes had a bathtub.

Only 8 percent of the homes had a telephone.

There were only 8,000 cars and only 144 miles of paved roads.

The maximum speed limit in most cities was 10 mph.

The tallest structure in the world was the Eiffel Tower

The average wage in 1909 was 22 cents per hour. The average worker made between $200 and $400 per year. A competent accountant could expect to earn $2000 per year, A dentist $2,500 per year, a veterinarian between $1,500 and $4,000 per year, and a mechanical engineer about $5,000 per year.

More than 95 percent of all births took place at HOME.

Ninety percent of all doctors had NO COLLEGE EDUCATION!

Instead, they attended so-called medical schools, many of which were condemned in the press AND the government as 'substandard. '

Sugar cost four cents a pound..

Eggs were fourteen cents a dozen.

Coffee was fifteen cents a pound.

Most women only washed their hair once a month, and used Borax or egg yolks for shampoo.

Canada passed a law that prohibited poor people from
entering into their country for any reason.

Five leading causes of death were:

1. Pneumonia and influenza
2. Tuberculosis
3. Diarrhea
4. Heart disease
5. Stroke


The American flag had 45 stars.

The population of Las Vegas, Nevada, was only 30!!!!

Crossword puzzles, canned beer, and ice tea hadn't been invented yet.

There was no Mother's Day or Father's Day.

Two out of every 10 adults couldn't read or write.

Only 6 percent of all Americans had graduated from high school.

Marijuana, heroin, and morphine were all available over the counter at the local corner drugstores. Back then pharmacists said, "Heroin clears the complexion, gives buoyancy to the mind,regulates the stomach and bowels, and is, in fact, a perfect guardian of health."

Eighteen percent of households had at least
one full-time servant or domestic help.

There were about 230 reported murders in the ENTIRE U.S.A. !

I am now going to forward this to someone else without typing it myself. From there, it will be sent to others all over the WORLD - all in a matter of seconds!

Try to imagine what it may be like in another 100 years.

IT STAGGERS THE MIND

(author unknown)

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

anti-aging

(photo courtesy mordoc)

from Newsweek:

Imagine that you could rewind the clock 20 years. It's 1989. Madonna is topping the pop charts, and TV sets are tuned to "Cheers" and "Murphy Brown." Widespread Internet use is just a pipe dream, and Sugar Ray Leonard and Joe Montana are on recent covers of Sports Illustrated.

But most important, you're 20 years younger. How do you feel? Well, if you're at all like the subjects in a provocative experiment by Harvard psychologist Ellen Langer, you actually feel as if your body clock has been turned back two decades. Langer did a study like this with a group of elderly men some years ago, retrofitting an isolated old New England hotel so that every visible sign said it was 20 years earlier. The men—in their late 70s and early 80s—were told not to reminisce about the past, but to actually act as if they had traveled back in time. The idea was to see if changing the men's mindset about their own age might lead to actual changes in health and fitness.

Langer's findings were stunning: After just one week, the men in the experimental group (compared with controls of the same age) had more joint flexibility, increased dexterity and less arthritis in their hands. Their mental acuity had risen measurably, and they had improved gait and posture. Outsiders who were shown the men's photographs judged them to be significantly younger than the controls. In other words, the aging process had in some measure been reversed.

I know this sounds a bit woo-wooey, but stay with me. Langer and her Harvard colleagues have been running similarly inventive experiments for decades, and the accumulated weight of the evidence is convincing. Her theory, argued in her new book, "Counterclockwise," is that we are all victims of our own stereotypes about aging and health. We mindlessly accept negative cultural cues about disease and old age, and these cues shape our self-concepts and our behavior. If we can shake loose from the negative clichés that dominate our thinking about health, we can "mindfully" open ourselves to possibilities for more productive lives even into old age.

Consider another of Langer's mindfulness studies, this one using an ordinary optometrist's eye chart. That's the chart with the huge E on top, and descending lines of smaller and smaller letters that eventually become unreadable. Langer and her colleagues wondered: what if we reversed it? The regular chart creates the expectation that at some point you will be unable to read. Would turning the chart upside down reverse that expectation, so that people would expect the letters to become readable? That's exactly what they found. The subjects still couldn't read the tiniest letters, but when they were expecting the letters to get more legible, they were able to read smaller letters than they could have normally. Their expectation—their mindset—improved their actual vision.

That means that some people may be able to change prescriptions if they change the way they think about seeing. But other health consequences might be more important than that. Here's another study, this one using clothing as a trigger for aging stereotypes. Most people try to dress appropriately for their age, so clothing in effect becomes a cue for ingrained attitudes about age. But what if this cue disappeared? Langer decided to study people who routinely wear uniforms as part of their work life, and compare them with people who dress in street clothes. She found that people who wear uniforms missed fewer days owing to illness or injury, had fewer doctors' visits and hospitalizations, and had fewer chronic diseases—even though they all had the same socioeconomic status. That's because they were not constantly reminded of their own aging by their fashion choices. The health differences were even more exaggerated when Langer looked at affluent people: presumably the means to buy even more clothes provides a steady stream of new aging cues, which wealthy people internalize as unhealthy attitudes and expectations.

Langer is not advocating that we all don uniforms. Her point is that we are surrounded every day by subtle signals that aging is an undesirable period of decline. These signals make it difficult to age gracefully. Similar signals also lock all of us—regardless of age—into pigeonholes for disease. We are too quick to accept diagnostic categories like cancer and depression, and let them define us. Doing so preempts the possibility of a healthful future.

That's not to say that we won't encounter illness, bad moods or a stiff back—or that dressing like a teenager will eliminate those things. But with a little mindfulness, we can try to embrace uncertainty and understand that the way we feel today may or may not connect to the way we will feel tomorrow. Who knows, if we're open to the idea that things can improve, we just might wake up feeling 20 years younger.

Herbert writes the blog We're Only Human at www.psychologicalscience.org/onlyhuman.

© 2009

A SPIRITUAL CONSPIRACY




On the surface of the world right now there is
war and violence and things seem dark. But calmly and quietly, at the same time, something else is happening underground. An inner revolution is taking place and certain individuals are being called to a higher light. It is a silent revolution. From the inside out. From the ground up. This is a Global operation. A Spiritual Conspiracy. There are sleeper cells in every nation on the planet. You wont see us on the T.V. You wont read about us in the newspaper. You wont hear about us on the radio. We dont seek any glory. We don't wear any uniform. We come in all shapes and sizes, colors and styles. Most of us work anonymously. We are quietly working behind the scenes in every country and culture of the world. Cities big and small, mountains and valleys, in farms and villages, tribes and remote islands. You could pass by one of us on the street and not even notice. We go undercover. We remain behind the scenes. It is of no concern to us who takes the final credit. But simply that the work gets done. Occasionally we spot each other in the street. We give a quiet nod and continue on our way. During the day many of us pretend we have normal jobs. But behind the false storefront at night is where the real work takes a place. Some call us the Conscious Army. We are slowly creating a new world with the power of our minds and hearts. We follow, with passion and joy. Our orders come from from the Central Spiritual Intelligence. We are dropping soft, secret love bombs when no one is looking Poems ~ Hugs ~ Music ~ Photography ~ Movies ~ Kind words ~ Smiles ~ Meditation and prayer ~ Dance ~ Social activism ~ Websites Blogs ~ Random acts of kindness... We each express ourselves in our own unique ways with our own unique gifts and talents Be the change you want to see in the world. That is the motto that fills our hearts. We know it is the only way real transformation takes place. We know that quietly and humbly we have the power of all the oceans combined. Our work is slow and meticulous. Like the formation of mountains. It is not even visible at first glance. And yet with it entire tectonic plates shall be moved in the centuries to come. Love is the new religion of the 21st century You dont have to be a highly educated person Or have any exceptional knowledge to understand it. It comes from the intelligence of the heart Embedded in the timeless evolutionary pulse of all human beings. Be the change you want to see in the world. Nobody else can do it for you. We are now recruiting. Perhaps you will join us. Or already have. All are welcome. The door is open.
~ author unknown